Sometimes two people at one point understand that their relationship failed, and decide to “remain friends”. Sometimes even maintain relations, but most often this does not happen. When one person comes to the decision on the gap, then most often there can simply not be friendship, and in place of this issue, another arises: how to cope with mental pain?
When parting, the most important thing is to wean from a person, from his presence in your life. This can only be done if there is no free time. First of all, it is necessary, of course, to calm down, put in order thoughts, put up and understand that this is not such a terrible trouble. And nothing that seems: no one else will be. After it is very important to find a lesson for yourself, in which there simply will not be time to think about losses. So, you can find a new hobby, discover something absolutely unfamiliar for yourself, do what you never tried in life. For example, learn how to draw, play a musical instrument, start studying any science or even jumping with a parachute. After all, after breaking up with a loved one, there is a lot of free time. And if this is a temporary space not to score with certain actions that would fully carry you into the life process, then all the free time will be spent on suffering. It is important to stop sorry for yourself and not invent the shortcomings. Thus, self -abasement can be brought to an even worst state, and instead of working on yourself and reassuring, enjoy pity for your loved ones. Ideally when every minute is painted. You can go to exhibitions, presentations, read a lot of books or go in for sports. The main thing is to remember that everything in life depends only on their own desire and desire.
