We look at the world from the inside. Yes, yourself, and it really seems to us that the world rotates around us. Sometimes, sometimes there are times that the circle of our perception is so expanding, bypassing first a small circle, then the middle, and then the biggest – and now we no longer feel, but we see ourselves from the side. Or maybe we don’t see, but simply exist, we float, watching everything that happens somehow … objectively. We are not, we dissolve in the stream, while someone’s voice or loud sound of the siren does not return us back.
But the main part of the time we see the world from the inside. And when time comes to the assessment, we give ourselves the highest points for everything that we do. We wake up on the second alarm clock and get out of a cozy bed, although we still want to soak up in the warmth – and for this we immediately consider ourselves heroes! When we have to do not what we would like (and personally I have this most of the time) – we consider ourselves heroes. And by the end of the day we are already so heroes that you can afford to heroically sit behind the TV and do nothing.
And there are so many little things in life. But things should be great, important! I have a creative mess on the table most of the time. Order occurs once a week, sometimes less often. And it doesn’t last at all for long. Simply because cleaning all sorts of little things in place is petty. There should be so much little things to remove them as a feat! Then you can be proud of yourself. It is important to us. “To us” is men.
But women appreciate us differently. For women for each feat of a feat, we get one score. Ask them how important it is to receive three roses or fifteen roses as a gift. Asked? Want to guess? The same? Yes, the same! Attention is important, not the number of flowers expressing this attention.
On the one hand, everything is extremely clear, but on the other … someone still must do the little things. And sometimes making some trifle becomes much more important than to accomplish a feat. Notice, pay attention and … react.
We perceive the exploits in different ways. And where it seems inappropriate to a man even to move, a woman will find a deep meaning. What lies on the surface for one – for the other person seems to be a deep experience. The fact that the eggs are not worth it-it turns out to be a cornerstone, because of which relations collapse.
I am surprised that online games about the relationships of the sexes have not yet been invented. This game would become the most box office action, and would have the highest rating. This is more abruptly any shooter. And break your head over life situations much more practical.
